The Complete Singapore Wedding Timeline: 26 Tasks from 18 Months Out to Wedding Day
Planning a Singapore wedding can feel overwhelming — ROM filings, Guo Da Li, banquet bookings, Ji Mei, Ang Baos. Here is the exact checklist we built into SummerVows, broken down phase by phase so you always know what to do next.
12 April 2026
Planning a Singapore wedding is not just about picking flowers and choosing a playlist. There is a full cascade of tasks — legal, cultural, logistical — that need to happen in the right order. Miss one and you are scrambling at midnight two weeks before the big day.
We distilled everything into 26 tasks across six phases. This is the same checklist that powers the SummerVows task tracker.
Phase 1: 12–18 Months Out
This is the foundation phase. The decisions you make here set the budget and headcount ceiling for every single thing that follows.
1. Discuss the budget — decide who is paying for what
Before you book anything, align on numbers. Singapore weddings average between $30,000 and $80,000+ depending on guest count and venue tier. More importantly, clarify early whether parents are contributing — and what strings, if any, come attached. A clear budget prevents awkward conversations later.
2. Draft the initial guest list (rough headcount)
You do not need final names yet. You need a rough number — 100 pax? 200? 400? This determines whether you are looking at a hotel ballroom, a restaurant, or a community club. Your banquet venue capacity is the single biggest constraint on your entire wedding.
3. Hunt and book the banquet venue
Popular venues in Singapore — Capella, Shangri-La, Fullerton, The Garage — book out 12–18 months in advance, especially for Saturdays. Visit at least three venues, compare per-table pricing (typically $1,200–$2,500/table), and ask about their corkage policy, minimum table commitments, and bridal suite inclusions.
4. Book the bridal studio package
Bridal studios handle your pre-wedding shoot outfits, actual day gowns, makeup (often), and sometimes photography. Good studios also book out fast. Compare packages carefully — some include overseas shoots, some do not. Check what is rental vs. what you keep.
Phase 2: 9–12 Months Out
Vendors are the focus here. The best photographers and videographers in Singapore are often booked a year in advance.
5. Hire your Actual Day photographer and videographer
AD photography is non-negotiable — these are the memories you keep forever. Set aside 10–15% of your total budget for this. Review full galleries (not just highlight reels), check their style (photojournalistic vs. posed), and confirm they have shot at your venue before.
6. Assemble the entourage — Ji Mei and Xiong Di
Your Ji Mei (bridesmaids) and Xiong Di (groomsmen) are your support crew on the actual day. Choose people who are reliable and will not bail. Give them enough notice — they may need to arrange leave from work.
7. Schedule the pre-wedding shoot
Most bridal packages include a pre-wedding shoot. Lock in the date and location now. Popular spots — Gardens by the Bay, Botanic Gardens, Pulau Ubin, or an overseas location — need early planning, especially if you want a specific season or lighting condition.
8. Source and book a Solemnizer (Justice of the Peace)
For civil marriages in Singapore, you need a solemnizer licensed by ROM. JPs are independent; you find and hire them yourself. They are booked quickly for peak wedding months (March–May, September–November). Fees are typically $500–$1,500. Confirm they can accommodate your ceremony venue and time.
Phase 3: 6–9 Months Out
Details start to crystallise. This phase is about locking in the personal touches.
9. Purchase wedding bands
Allow time for custom sizing, engraving, and any bespoke designs. Popular jewellers in Singapore — Lee Hwa, Poh Heng, Tiffany, or independent goldsmith workshops in Chinatown — will need several weeks for custom orders. Shop together and try on multiple styles.
10. Plan the honeymoon
Book flights and accommodation now, especially if you are travelling during peak periods (June/July, December) or to popular destinations like the Maldives, Japan, or Europe. Factor in that you will be exhausted after the wedding — build in a buffer day before you fly.
11. Draft the Actual Day itinerary
Map out the full flow: morning tea ceremony timing, gatecrash, march-in to brother's home, travel to ROM/solemnisation, lunch, changeover, evening banquet. Work backwards from your banquet start time. Build in buffer — Singaporean traffic and getting the bride ready always takes longer than expected.
12. Select gowns and suits — first fitting
This is the first fitting appointment with your bridal studio. Brides typically have 2–3 fittings. Grooms, at least one. Note that alterations take time, so do not leave this to the last minute. If you are renting additional gowns for the banquet changeover, confirm those selections now too.
Phase 4: 3–6 Months Out
The administrative and logistical sprint.
13. File Notice of Marriage with ROM
This is a legal requirement. You must file your Notice of Marriage at least 21 days before your solemnisation date. Both parties must be present at a ROM appointment. Book your ROM appointment early — slots fill up. Bring your NRIC and any relevant documents.
14. Send "Save the Dates" to VIPs
For guests travelling from overseas or those who need to arrange childcare and leave, send save-the-dates early. A simple digital card via WhatsApp is fine for most Singapore couples. Formal invitations come later.
15. Banquet food tasting with parents
Most hotels and restaurants offer a complimentary food tasting for couples. Bring both sets of parents — they will have opinions on the food (and you want them to feel involved). Use this as an opportunity to walk through the banquet programme and table layout with the venue coordinator.
16. Prepare traditional items — Guo Da Li and Dowry
For Chinese weddings, the Guo Da Li (betrothal ceremony) involves the groom's family presenting gifts to the bride's family. Items vary by dialect group (Hokkien, Teochew, Cantonese) but typically include bak zhang, bridal cakes, and a cash gift. Your parents will guide you, but start sourcing early — some items need to be pre-ordered.
17. Design and print invitations, or set up digital RSVP
Physical invitations should be mailed 6–8 weeks before the wedding. For digital-first couples, set up your RSVP form or wedding website now. Collect dietary requirements (halal, vegetarian, shellfish allergies) at this stage — your banquet coordinator needs final counts weeks before the event.
Phase 5: 1–2 Months Out
Final confirmations and the last big traditional milestone.
18. Chase RSVPs and dietary requirements
Follow up with non-responders. You need firm numbers for the banquet — most venues require final headcount 2 weeks before. Compile dietary requirements and pass them to your coordinator.
19. Play "Seating Tetris" — arrange table seating
This is notoriously the most stressful pre-wedding task. Separate divorced parents, group colleagues together, keep the elderly near the aisle. Tools like the SummerVows seating planner help, but budget a full evening for this.
20. The Guo Da Li ceremony
Typically held 2–4 weeks before the wedding. The groom's family delivers the betrothal gifts to the bride's home. It is a formal occasion — dress appropriately, and ensure both families know the schedule and protocol.
21. Prepare Ang Baos for helpers, solemnizer, and entourage
Prepare red packets for your solemnizer (customary amount, usually $100–$300), your Ji Mei and Xiong Di (token amounts, $50–$100 each), your MC, and anyone providing day-of services. Have these ready and labelled in advance.
22. Final vendor meeting — confirm all arrival timings
Call or meet every vendor: photographer, videographer, MUA, hair stylist, florist, solemnizer, emcee, band/DJ. Confirm: arrival times, locations, contact numbers on the day, and any last-minute changes. Share a copy of your itinerary with each.
Phase 6: 1 Week Out
The final stretch. Your job now is to let go and trust the process.
23. Final gown fitting — collect outfits
Pick up your gown and suits from the bridal studio. Try everything on once more. Check that all accessories (veil, shoes, jewellery) are packed together. Steam or press anything that needs it.
24. Brief the entourage — send the final itinerary
Send your Ji Mei and Xiong Di a clear briefing document: timing, location, dress code, what games to prepare, what to bring. The more information they have, the less you need to manage on the day.
25. Pack the AD Survival Kit
A small bag kept by your Ji Mei with: safety pins, double-sided tape, blotting paper, paracetamol, mints, a phone charger, a needle and thread, and your emergency vendor contact list. You will thank yourself.
26. Get a massage, sleep, and delegate everything else
This one is non-negotiable. You cannot look and feel your best if you are running on three hours of sleep and anxiety. Delegate remaining tasks to your most capable Ji Mei or a trusted family member. Your only job on wedding day is to show up, be present, and enjoy it.
Use This Checklist in SummerVows
All 26 of these tasks are built into the SummerVows task tracker. When you sign up, you can load the full SG wedding template with one click — every task is pre-populated and ready for you to tick off as you go.
